Is saying "I'll kill you" a normal thing?

..No, it is not ever normal to continue to say these kinds of things, or to have you dress the way he wants you to..This is control, possessiveness, and abuse in the worst possible way..Yes, you need to be concerned and you also need to stop the relationship before you do get even more hurt..He is already emotionally/mentally abusing you by trying to control you and dear, this is not love at all...Words like kill, do not come from love, they come from hatred & anger, either inner or outer, but either way I do not believe you are in a safe or loving relationship at all and should sever it as soon as possible, and please be careful when you do..You have already been in another abusive relationship and know the signs, so listen to your inner self..What is she telling you to do? Then do it!...Many women who have not completely recovered or given their self the time needed to heal from a past abusive relationship all to often re-enter another one, and I think you have..Please take care and please stay safe..I've been there too many years ago, so I do know what it is all about..